YOU'RE HERE BECAUSE YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT LEAVING THE CLUTCH.
I want you to take a minute to connect to how you’re feeling. Why?
Because as I always teach, the same action can feel amazing or terrible, depending on the thoughts and feelings behind it.
Because as I always teach, the same action can feel amazing or terrible, depending on the thoughts and feelings behind it.
If you're on this page because:
… you reached the emotional, physical, or mental goals you had when you joined the Clutch,
… you're experiencing less stress and anxiety in your work, in your relationships with others, and in your relationship with yourself,
… you discovered how to get shit done,
… you swapped self-hatred and self-loathing for self-love and self-confidence,
… you unfucked your brain from the grip of the patriarchy,
… and you’re feeling happy, proud, empowered, and ready to create an amazing life on your own…
THEN I AM HERE TO CHEER YOUR DEPARTURE. IN WHICH CASE, LET'S CALL IT WHAT IT IS...
Let’s recognize and celebrate how you invested your time, your money, and your energy into creating a life so good, you can’t even believe it’s yours.
I’m so proud of you, and more importantly, I know you’re proud of yourself.
On the other hand, you might be on this page because you're feeling...
…disappointed that you haven’t fixed the problems you came to the Clutch to resolve,
…guilty for spending money on the program when you haven’t been using it as much as you told yourself you would (or using it at all),
…frustrated that you’ve tried to apply the tools but they don’t seem to be working for you,
…or maybe worst of all, a familiar sinking sense that you’ll never truly be able to change yourself or solve your suffering.
I’ve felt all of these things in the past about coaching programs, chicken.
And I know that last feeling in particular all too well.
But the day everything changed for me was the day that I decided rather than just quit for the umpteenth time I would reach out and ask for help.
It was hard, because I had so many feelings.
I felt defensive about being told I was “doing it wrong.”
(Even though, to be honest, I wasn’t really doing it at all! I hadn’t been attending calls, I hadn’t kept up with the materials, I hadn’t asked for coaching. Maybe some of you can relate. 😂)
I felt weirdly attached to the experience of not being able to change myself or my life, because my brain – like all human brains – preferred to be right and miserable than wrong and happy.
But the day everything changed for me was the day that I decided rather than just quit for the umpteenth time I would reach out and ask for help.
It was hard, because I had so many feelings.
I felt defensive about being told I was “doing it wrong.”
(Even though, to be honest, I wasn’t really doing it at all! I hadn’t been attending calls, I hadn’t kept up with the materials, I hadn’t asked for coaching. Maybe some of you can relate. 😂)
I felt weirdly attached to the experience of not being able to change myself or my life, because my brain – like all human brains – preferred to be right and miserable than wrong and happy.
But I did ask for help, and my life got so much better because I did.
SO BEFORE YOU GO, I WANT TO OFFER YOU MORE HELP.
YOU CAN BOOK A FREE 15 MINUTE CALL
with our Community Manager or one of our Clutch Coaches who can help you take that one next step that will lead you closer to the life of your dreams, instead of going back to the life you wanted to change.
Or if you aren’t into calls (I get it!), I want to invite you (even, gently challenge you!) to write in to Ask the Coaches to get some coaching, especially if that isn’t something you’ve ever done before. The coaches can help you get clarity on your decision so that you feel empowered in whatever choice you make.
Before you go, please note all the ways we will continue to support your self-love, development and growth!
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